When a violent loss hits the news, the response is immediate. Headlines surge, opinions multiply, people search for details, motives, identities. For a brief window, the tragedy becomes a shared moment. Then the cycle moves on. The families don’t. What Helping Actually Looks Like What helping actually looks like after a violent loss has very […]

Awareness, Domestic Violence, Emotional Health, Support, The Be Ruthless Show

March 19, 2026

When Violent Loss Hits The News

I used to move on a Saturday and have everything done by Monday. And by everything, I mean pictures hung, drawers organized, everything nice and tidy… Because I don’t do well when things aren’t in their place. A disorganized environment equals a very disorganized mind in my case. Since back surgery, that process looks different. […]

Awareness, Emotional Health, Mental Health, Stress, Support

March 6, 2026

Listening To My Body: The Best Discipline I Know

Two dogs resting together on a beige blanket in a cozy living room. A grey pit bull is lying down with its head on the blanket, and a black‑and‑white Boston terrier is beside it looking at the camera. The background shows a lived‑in space with a couch, blankets, and shelves.

What no one tells you about grief is how it quietly steals the ordinary escapes you used to rely on. The Theft of Simple Escapes Before loss, you knew how to take a break from life. You turned on music during a drive. You curled up with a familiar show. You laughed at reruns you’ve […]

Grieving, Mental Health, Support, The Be Ruthless Show

February 21, 2026

What No One Tells You About Grief

Hands holding yellow and maroon puzzle pieces, representing the hidden truths of grief, the pieces we carry alone, and the slow process of finding what fits.

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Awareness, Blog, Communication, Inspiration, Letters, Support

January 25, 2026

United Through Grief

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Awareness, Blog, Communication, Inspiration, Letters, Support

January 12, 2026

2026 : How is it Possible?

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Awareness, Blog, Communication, Inspiration, Letters, Support

September 10, 2025

The First Page of the Next Chapter: Not Starting Over, Starting Again

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Awareness, Blog, Grieving, Inspiration, Support

November 6, 2024

Why Healing Together Through the Holidays is a Must-Attend Event for Those Navigating Grief

Healing Together Through The Holidays

It’s that time of year. Whether your kiddos are just beginning school or heading off to graduate school – moms all over the world are feeling the feels. (I must point out that my mom had absolutely no feels. No joke. She threw a party. Ok – maybe not an actual, literal party. But in no way, […]

Anxiety, Emotional Health, Mental Health, Support

August 27, 2024

Back To School

I’ve worked tirelessly to maintain a positive outlook. To always find the silver lining. It’s Jim living on through me. But I’m also human. We are all faced with challenges, difficult moments, and impossible decisions. It’s called LIFE. It’s easy to get caught up in the roller coaster of life. It takes effort, a conscious […]

Awareness, Blog, Depression, Emotional Health, Mental Health, Mindset, Support

July 31, 2024

Staying Positive

  Grief is never easy. But when you’re in college, it’s even harder. In honor of National College Student Grief Awareness Day, let’s talk about a few tips to help college students navigate grieving. College is so much different from every other part of life. By the time you get to college, you’re labeled an […]

Emotional Health, Grieving, Mental Health, Support

April 18, 2024

6 Tips for Navigating Grief in College

Choosing the right mental health professionals to support you can be scary. You’re trusting someone with the deepest, messiest parts of yourself – and you deserve to be able to trust them fully. So let’s talk about what you can do to ensure you’re trusting the right people. I’ve recently come face to face with […]

Emotional Health, Mental Health, Mental Illness, My Journey, Support, Therapy

April 4, 2024

Let’s Talk About Ethics: Advice for Choosing and Vetting Your Mental Health Professionals

Happy Holidays!  I hope that all of you have had a happy holiday season – whatever that looks like for you. Today marks 6 years without Jim. As you can imagine, the holidays have been more than difficult ever since his loss. It’s a time filled with great pain but also reflection. I believe in […]

Emotional Health, Grieving, Inspiration, My Journey, Relationships, Support

December 27, 2023

6 Years, 6 Reflections: Memories and Life Lessons on the 6th Anniversary of Jim’s Passing